Awe my ma se kinders!!!"Women are crazy. Men are stupid. The main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid."
- George Carlin
I thought that was funny:)
I had a long conversation with one of my mates in the car yesterday and we discussed what I should blog about. Man, it is tight but I shall dive into the waters of that topic another day...
I was circulating the small bi concave discs, without a nucleus and that are elastic (blood- well; red blood cells to be exact) on the power plates at gym this morning when it struck me that my one mate rated his week a 4 last night. I was too busy frolicking in my buoyant memory of my rated 10 week that I never asked him why his was below average.
I then saw him walking up the stairs of the gym and immediately left the vibrating plates and embraced him with a sweat-filled-decaying-body-fat aroma hug and beseeched him to let me into his state of unpleasantness...
His words; "I'm alive- don't worry"
Woah! Right there it struck me... It did more than that actually- it changed my perspective for the day. I gave him a gangster Hi5 and ran down to get my 10 minutes in the sauna.
"I'm alive..."
What does it really mean?
My point is; in relationships it is often the structure of togetherness that determines how your day goes. It is the stereotypical i-love-you/ i-miss-you-baby that embeds itself into your almost jointed memory . Your memory is actually injured and you do not see it. It is missing the most important element: You.
You are alive. Who are you? Are you really living a life that gives you the desires of your heart? I am not telling you to become selfish or egocentric- the point I am making is that the desire for a relationship can often cause you to lose your individuality. You were intricately created for a purpose and your purpose is NOT in someone else. A relationship will not make you complete.
An inspiring lady who used to work with me, Kelly, said that if you are looking for a relationship- you are not going to find it. By being comfortable with whom you are, you are allowing space for someone to add value. By being consumed with the thought of another half, you are creating a trap to get injured.
Whether you are searching, or have been in a relationship for some time, you must know one thing:
You are beautiful. You are unique. You need to spend time with people who love you, believe in you and make you laugh.
Embrace your individuality and it will give others a chance to see you and fall in love with who you really are.
