The biggest mistake you can make...

Hello hi.

It is a concept that is as deathly as the screech from sliding nails across a chalk board. It is as sickening as sun stroke or food poisoning. It is as lame as Savannah jokes. The theory of the real life bachelor is hideous. Please leave it to the series channel where it can be joked about but do not bring it into your character.

You cannot be flirting with a few women in hope that by giving them all an opportunity to impress you; that you will find ‘the one’.   

What often happens is that there will be a girl throwing herself at you or making herself a lot more accessible. The one you probably should connect with will draw away in hope that you will make an effort to fight for her. Being a male, you fall into temptation and ruin your chances with the girl that is best for you.

I often talk to my brothers about public affection. In the old days, this would mean holding hands or kissing in front of a group of people. These days; it involves FaceBook, Twitter and all different types of social media.

What girls say for the world to see, and how you reply to it paints perspective to the eyes reading it.

Obvious. Indeed. It still shocks me how men cannot see it.

What they may see as a naïve answer, according to my brothers- men can be naïve, is perceived as flirting or leading on.

You are looking for trouble if that is where you build the foundation of any relationship.

Making an effort, can be compared to an aggressive investment: It may go wrong but if it goes right… You reap a reward that is comforting. It is flawless when done correctly so easy up on them mistakesJ