Watch what we wearing...

"I got my mind set on you. I got my mind set in you. I got my mind set on you. I got my mind set in you."


Very catchy song. It really makes my day glitter.

Talking about glittering, i was having a good old heart-to-heart with my brother a while back. We were discussing how men and women vary. I do not mean to stereotype but you get the strangest species of men in South Africa hunting for the beef of home grown honeys... 

You get what we call a Vaalie. He is the type of man that will come out from the bush and travel to the sea on consecutive summers. He will then marinate in the sea through days sweating with the phosphoric sun and continue to splash in his speedo on the days where you wouldn't bother shaving because it is so cold that your hair immediately grows back. 

Then you get the jock... He is the man always waddling around in his rugby shorts. Generally good looking, but he knows that. The best place to find one of those is in crowded areas, as they like attention, and you can easily identify them as they are the blokes who will walk past shop windows and have a good glare at themselves...

Ooo, the metrosexuals... These guys are amazing! No lie, they look after themselves so well. Face- Moisturized. Lips- Plump. Hair- Straightened. They are always dressed in the latest fashion. They never wear ankle hugging socks and takkies with shorts. Or hideous slops with jeans. 


Lastly, you get the guys that just do not fall into any specific bracket of generalization... The good o's. Let's just call them that. They enjoy sport, may possibly suffer from occasional sun burn, but they look after themselves and most importantly those around them. They could have long hair or they may enjoy their shorts but you could actually just tackle them out of respect for their humble nature. Yes, tackling can be a way of showing approval:)

These guys can see what other guys miss- The true beauty in a woman. They also pick up on the frequencies that us women signal out daily. Something my brother and I worked out together:

When a woman is wearing a dress, she wants to be treated like a princess. She won't mind compliments because it brings out the softer, more gentle side of her personality. 

An evening dress... Sophistication is what she is trying to pull off. Be a gentleman. She probably feels like the most beautiful girl in the world and this is where you should stay close to her. It makes her feel like you are proud to be with her.

When she is in her training gear, unless you are training together, let her do her own thing. This is her time where she generally detoxes. She needs space to sweat out the weeks stress:)

If she is in her casual clothes, this is the best time. She feels phlegmatic and comfortable. Pick her up, tickle her, she is in her 'fun' gear.

Hope I have been of help. Little tips like this will lead you to comprehend the mind of a female.

Keep it real, keep singing and smile like no one is watching.

Too-da-loo:)