I am back once again, cocooned in the joy of a Monday and fluttering in the hope that we are getting somewhere in terms of relationships.
Before worship, a mate and I were discussing my blog. She was giving me some guidance in what she expects from men. I quite liked it. I then remembered what a lady from work said about her relationship and I thought everything ties up rather nicely.
Today we are plundering into discussion about what you should do to display interest in the fairer sex.
When I asked the lady from work how she felt in her relationship, she informed me that she has actually been engaged for five years. She said that it feels like they have spent their whole lives together but at the same time, it feels like it has not even been a second. She joked that if you ask her fiancé; he would say that it has been a life time of nagging.
I was then thinking back to some of the sweetest things that I have been fortunate enough to experience. It is the little things that count.
Oh here come the stories again...
Deep stares. If anything, I can speak for most girls, this is the process where girls can be lost in your gaze and actually not really pick up on anything that you are saying. The same guy that stared me into oblivion won the title for most romantic when he would just dance with me. We could be walking along corridors and he would just twirl me in and spin me around.
Oh, I still blush at those memories:)
I remember the one guy that used to say; "Good night Princess" at the end of his texts. I would go to sleep feeling like royalty. He stands out far above most men because that is really him: A true man. He is a realist, and does not just agree. He can explore conversation vacillating from light hearted Eric Claptin discussions to deep meaningful matters of the future.
I am trying to show you that there are people out there who make an effort and that it requires little brain power but it really transforms a way a female regards you.
This one couple at our church have recently got married and he talks about his wife like she is a gift to human civilization. He has been speaking about her in this regard throughout their two years of dating too. It is ridiculously inspiring how his eyes light up at the sight of her. He smiles and it is so genuine that you immediately set the same standards for your future masculine creature.
My colleague has also just passed the two year millstone in his dating relationship. When I am in the presence of his girlfriend, I get goose pimples because he speaks of her with the highest level of love that it actually makes your heart melt. He is so secure in their relationship and always encourages her growth. He never puts her down. He is the wealthiest man in the world because he carries his treasure close to his heart.
Men, how often do you boast in your partner? Do you look at her daily thinking that you have the pot at the end of the rainbow? Do not, when you have her, feel like the chase is over. Chase her for the rest of your life and you will feel like you have fulfilled the mission most men fail.
Think back to the most romantic thing you have done for a lass and consider whether you can make it a life style...
Do not fall into the trap of getting old too quickly. Be young and adventurous. Spontaneous.
You will make her feel like the luckiest girl in the world.
Shot! that makes me feel Really special! Our treasure is found in Jesus wich makes us both each others treasures.
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