When I say 'Puppy Love', I am strictly emphasising the 'puppies' in the 'love-is-sphere'. I group them from the ages of 20 downwards...
Why?
The world is a changing bowling ball with opportunities that give you the high scores but also the misses and it is so easy to direct a miss if you do not give the ball enough energy to be thrust in the correct direction.
What I am really saying is that if you are fourteen years older than your 'puppy': Please leave her alone. For all you know; she is really not into you.
Let us give it a scenario... Perhaps you gym at the same time every morning. Perhaps you may have played for the SpringBokke at one stage of your life and perhaps you wear the same Sharks shorts to gym everyday in hope of finding groupies of the past...
Brother, if you are that much older than her, with a possible marriage behind your back, AND SHE IS ONLY TWENTY, come on!
She will leave you signs of her non interest. Damn right.
When she purposefully gyms on the opposite side of the gym; it is not because she deems your long distance offering worthy. She is trying to escape you. Do not make the effort to walk to the other side day after day and hit her with one sentenced conversation.
This is the mini cherry on top of the regular cherry that tops the Sundae of awesomeness that is my life.
It is not personal: She appreciates your effort but let her decide and follow her lead.
That is all...
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